When dating transgender people, don't ask if they are men or women. I want to mention that transgender women are real women, transgender men are real men. Just treat them as ordinary men and women in trans dating.
2. How about your life before?
All transgender people don't want to talk about their past lives. The current life is what they want, so don't care about what does he/she used to be.
3. Are you gay?
Transgender people are not gay, dating a transgender person will never make you gay. This is a stupid question in trans dating, so never ask this question when dating a transgender person.